Queer Joy and Punjabi Diasporic Cooking with Gurdeep Loyal

By Simran Uppal

The chef and author of ‘Mother Tongue’ talks about the relationship between food, joy, acceptance, creativity and the spaces in between.

“Why can’t I,” he exclaims in glee, “have garam masala with za’atar in black treacle?” He peppers our whole conversation with these tiny, bright flashes. At one point I feel like listening to him is like my favourite moment in cooking again and again, when you pour a tarka – smoking hot ghee and spices – into a simmering pot of dal, and everything is sparkling and sizzling and smells like the gods.

Mother Tongue is, in part, a love letter to these cities where diasporic grocery stores from all over the world are piled on top of each other. The Leicester of Gurdeep’s upbringing is there: the first British city with a person-of-colour majority, he proudly tells me, and the place he “got to experience all of India, all the subcontinent [in], through the exchange of food.”

These are all, loosely speaking, what Gurdeep brilliantly calls “flavour chords”. These are the heart of how he makes his fundamentally pleasure-first, intercultural approach to cooking accessible to the reader. We have, he says, access to “much more emotionally sensitive prose” when talking about music than about food

Fried dried shrimp – chilli – garlic – onion – salt and maybe lemon juice. Fried shrimp – chilli – mung dal. White bread – butter – balachaung – lemon juice.

Queer Joy and Punjabi Diasporic Cooking with Gurdeep Loyal

By Simran Uppal